You get attached to the people you help, not to the ones who help you

It may seem counter-intuitive, but people get attached to the others they help, not to the ones which they help from.

OK, not a 100% fool proof rule, it may differ from person to person, from the kind of help given to the kind of help received, but it’s an idea to think about.

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  1. Mi-a adus aminte de un sfat auzit mai demult de la cineva care lucra la o grigada speciala; daca ti se pare ca vezi o persoana suspecta la metrou, decat sa o ignori e mai bine sa te duci si sa o rogi sa te ajute cu ceva: o informatie despre statii, sau cat e ceasul.. Asta face de obicei persoanele periculoase sa isi reconsidere planul de a face un rau celor din jur. Odata ce ai ajutat esti predispus sa oferi iar ajutor.

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