Why am I "cold"?

I tend not to give feed-back. Someone does a thing, I ignore. Someone says a thing, I ignore. Thus, I am perceived as cold. Why do I do this?

  • One reason for this is for others’ protection – I am annoyed by a lot of things, if I keep them within me, I can be as cold as I like it.
  • Another reason? My own protection – I can keep my thoughts hidden. Though not the best answer everytime, it sometimes works.
  • Finally – I tend to be shy in public with new people.


  1. That’s why I love smiles. You can keep your thoughts hidden and people that you aren’t talking with won’t have a wrong impression that you don’t like them.


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